Lies Wives Believe

It’s all About Me and My Dreams

People have dreams.  No, I’m not simply talking about that time you ended up in front of your school giving the speech of your life in your underwear, I’m talking about goals, wants and desires.

There are things that each person wants to do, what they see themselves doing with their lives and what they want to become.

It’s these dreams and goals that help make us who we are, they define us, and they halp us to feel successful when we reach them.

As partners and spouses, we should be looking out to help each other reach those goals and desires.  Instead, what usually happens is that one spouse or the other pursues their goals while the other does a majority of the work.

But it does not have to be so!

What you should do with your spouse is take the time to outline what your goals and dreams are.  What is it that you want to do?  Where would you like to go?

But don’t stop there!

After you’ve drawn up what you’d like to do, plan for it to be done.  Lay out the steps and make sure that you put in the parts where the other person has a role to play.

It may be that you won’t be able to achieve that goal in the near term, but by making plans you can work toward it, and know that you will be working toward that dream.  That will make the work all the sweeter.