Lies Wives Believe

Do You Know His Hobbies?

You may believe that your husband should have his hobbies and you can have yours, and that both of you can be happy pursuing your own thing on your own time.  To some extent, it was probably true.  You see, you both entered into a relationship with things that you liked to do.

However, you both learned to do some of the things that the other person liked to do, and you spent time with each other.  That time that you invested in your spouse is part of the glue that holds you two together. 

What you do together increases your feelings of love for each other because it associates positive experiences with that other person.

So, if you do not take the time to try and participate in each other’s hobbies, you are leaving that time open—that experience open—for just your spouse or for someone else to get involved.

I’d recommend never getting involved in a hobby with a person of the opposite sex for either of you.  I’d further recommend that you lose the hobby before you’d open yourself to that kind of temptation.  But I’d suggest that you take the time to at least give your spouse’s hobby a fair chance.

You never know—you may end up liking it!