Lies Wives Believe

Have You Stopped Dating?

When he was just your boyfriend you couldn’t get enough time together.  It didn’t matter what you were doing—the movies, dinner, miniature golf, etc.—you were happy just because you were together.

When you got married, things changed a bit—there was another “activity” that was thrown into the mix, and you started doing all your meals together.

When you add your first child, the dynamics of the family change again, such that you start spending time and focusing on the child’s development.

So my question is, have you stopped dating?

It’s hard.  There’s a lot of time constraints, and it’s difficult to plan when things are constantly changing and you seem to have things that are vying for your time and attention.  But you did it when you were in high school and college…

Because it was important to you.

So, when is the last time that you’ve been on a date?  I know, like you, I’m thinking about this and planning to get one together now.

There’s no excuse.  Pick up that phone, get the babysitter, make the reservation, and get away with some quality time for just the two of you.  You won’t be sorry you did.