Lies Wives Believe

Does He Think You’re Sexy?

When’s the last time that he’s told you how attractive you are to him?  If it hasn’t been a while, that’s not necessarily because he doesn’t think you are.

A lot goes into a relationship.  The more that each spouse puts in, the more that they get out.  Here’s some reasons the man in your life may not have told you recently how attractive you are to him:

He’s been distracted

Has your husband been consumed with some task around the house or at work?  Is he under stress?

Chances are that if he’s got heavy matters on his mind he may not be paying as much attention to you as he would like to.

All you have to do is to make sure that you’re present, and maybe surprise him by wearing something that he likes or giving him a massage.  Chances are he’ll take notice!

He’s Holding a Grudge

Relationships are reciprocal—as we mentioned above.  If he feels that he is not getting recognized, he could be withholding recognition in revenge.

Take a look around at what he’s been doing.  If you see that he’s doing something he didn’t usually do, compliment him on it and see where that leads!

You’re In Your PJs all Day

True, pajamas are relaxing, and who wants to get dressed up and looking good when you don’t have to leave the house.  The thing is, when you were dating you’d spend hours on your appearance just to please him¹.

Take inventory of how you’re dressed and how you present yourself.  Surprise him some night when he gets home from work with how good you look—remember, he may be working with women who have prepared themselves for the day.

He’s Feeling Worthless

Men derive part of who they are from their wives.  They feel accomplishment when she places her trust in him and looks to him as a leader.  If you’re constantly berating him—whether or not he complains he may manifest his sorrow in silence.

If you build each other up, your marriage will be happier and healthier.  I’m not saying lie, but what I am saying is focus on the positive.

Conclusion

If none of these work, it’s time to have a conversation about what’s going on, what’s changed.  It may be that there’s a problem more severe that’s going on, or it may be that there’s something I haven’t mentioned.  Hopefully it’s the latter.

Take care of your relationship—it’s special!

1. Yes, guys are guilty of this same thing! [↩]